Hank hanegraaff, the host of the bible answer man broadcast, answers a caller who wonders, why did god allow jacob to have multiple. The book of mormon, translated in 1829, makes mention of polygamy and, while it seems to forbid polygamy, it recognizes that sometimes god commands men to practice polygamy. Jacob 2 describes how the prophet jacob condemned materialism and sexual immorality, including unauthorized plural marriage. Islam is a religion in tune with human nature and has rules and guidelines for the burning social issues of our time. He sent me books on the prophet and the prophets family and encouraged and helped my arabic and quranic studies. Thus, the lds church today teaches that plural marriage can only be practiced when specifically authorized by god. Apr 15, 2017 polygamy in islam the rationale and laws behind.
Look at david and his wives, did it bring him any good. Oct 01, 2015 before introducing you to the book,let me in short answer this question,why islam permits 4 wives. There are several instances of polygamy in the old testament. The book of mormon account is basing its statements on an interpretation of mosaic law to defend a new to them negative position on polygamy.
Moses had two wives, abraham three, jacob four, david at least 18, and solomon all of 700. To amplify the context within which polygyny occupies an islamic relevance, one should look to the current debates surrounding polygyny in islam, and more broadly, polygamy, and the implications that emerged from their contextual transition from the jahiliyya to the islamic era. One of the greatest contrasts between islam and the west is their conflicting concepts of relations between the sexes. Jacob s older sons, however, felt that their father loved joseph and benjamin, jacob s youngest son, more than them. Some of the reasons why polygamy has been allowed in islam, from population statistics to the physical nature of humans. I read everything he sent me, which solidified my beliefs once again. Drawing from jacob 2, apostle orson pratt, in an 1859 sermon, taught that polygamy was positively forbidden to be practiced by the ancient nephites except as otherwise commanded by god. But it is the only aspect of polygamy expressly forbidden in the bible and islamic law. In islam, the ideal marriage is the monogamous form of marriage. The association of polygamy with islam is a serious misunderstanding. The book of jacob condemned polygamy as adultery, but left open the proviso that for if i will, saith the lord of hosts, raise up seed unto me, i will command my people. Introduction there is no doubt that only allah is the creator and he knows the needs of his creation. With the advent of islam, the islamic law condoned polygamy but a man was limited to only four wives, and specific rules regulated these marriages.
Understanding jacobs teachings about plural marriage from. Polygamy in islam is the outcome of thorough study by jameelah jones and bilal philips, both reverts to islam. Islam is often criticized because of the polygamy that it allows. No, he had two and not by his choosing wives and two concubines four women to whom he was connected through children. Islamic concept of polygamy, its benefits and impact on. In islam, polygyny is not a substitute for monogamy, but merely a permission to practice limited polygyny, which is consistent with islams realistic view of human nature, as well as social needs. It is from these four ladies that jacob had twelve sons who became ancestors of the twelve tribes of. Islam and polygamy islam allows polygamy and permits men, under specific circumstances, to have at most four wives at any given time. Kept eight wives, and scores of concubines and female. Buy polygamy in islam iiph saudi publication by abu ameenah bilal philips isbn. Why is a man allowed to marry more than one wife in islam.
Although early patriarchs such as jacob married sisters, it was outlawed after the mosaic law was. Islam is criticized for allowing polygamy, for popular culture in the west views polygamy as relatively backward and impoverished. This ultimately is the pointjacob was defending the new party line on polygamy from the scriptures. How saints and jacobs teachings can help contextualize.
Polygamy news the new york times history blog this article on jacob zuma and polygamy. Polygamy, or comarriage to multiple wives, is discussed in the quran as a response to a specific social situation. How might readers make sense of this connection between polygamy and material wealth. The book has been well received by the readership and is. This book replies straightforwardly to that question and much more. Christian countries make a great show of monogamy, but actually they practice polygamy. It contains a lot of brief, yet informative articles about different aspects of islam. This action of men marrying four women at a time, is called polygamy. Combined marriage polygamy in christianity polygamy in north america polygyny in islam. Download islamic books on marriage including fiqh of love marriage in islam, fiqh of marriage in the light of the quran and sunnah, the ingredients for a happy marriage, ettiquettes of marriage, marriage and what people say, polygamy in islam, polygamy. For obtaining these objectives, islamic law has permitted a man to marry four women at a time. Polygamy in islam abu ameenah bilal philips, jameelah jones on.
As we progress through the stories about jacob and his family, you will notice that his wives are respectfully addressed by name while bilhah and zilpah are repeatedly called. Polygamy in islam there are people who know very little about islam. In february he told men to marry two or more wives to reduce the number of single women. And even so, muslim women are not forced to accept this and may put a condition against it in their marriage contract. This has been done for the purpose of solving many social and domestic problems, which a family is confronted with from time to time. If you look at the story of peninnah and hannah in the bible, you will agree that it is a situation you definitely dont want in your life. Their western background has facilitated a more comprehensive understanding of the topic from both the islamic and the eurocentered points of view. Polygamy in islam marriage in islam, polygamy in the. Definition of polygamy polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy was practiced, often without limitations, in almost all cultures. Jameelah jones was born in georgia, usa, and she accepted islam in 1971. To the modern proponents of polygamy as opposed to biblical polygamy, which was entirely different, our forefather jacob is the shining example after all, he had four wives right. We have written here about polygamy in islam previously.
Among others, polygamy was well known to the ancient hebrews, egyptian. He also revealed his laws for family which starts from a man and woman. Polygamy in history islam did not invent the system of polygamy. Well, thats what i thought for many years as well and it was no wonder i was looking through a lens colored by modern movies, television shows, and ten. Islamic concept of polygamy, its benefits and impact on society janas khani muhammad zahoorii abstract allah the creator of the whole universe made mats of everything in this universe. Islam has a complete marriage system which takes into account all the human variables and provides men and women with viable options. As historically confirmed, polygamy has been known since ancient times. The qurans allowance of multiple wives thus poses a challenge for the contemporary apologist, who wants his western audience to believe that islam encourages gender equality. In south africa, where former president jacob zuma has four wives, polygamy has long been legal under customary arrangements. As the subtitle suggests it aims at describing the historical background, arguing for instance that early christians were polygamous, and legal practices as used throughout the. Wherefore, my brethren, hear me, and hearken to the word of the lord.
There is always the conditionan inescapable onethat whatever the society, the women should outnumber the men. Esau selling his birthright to his younger brother jacob. They have a very good marriage, and they both appear to be happy. For there shall not any man among you have save it be one wife. The principle was permitted, but polygamy was limited to four wives. We wish first to discuss the concept of polygamy in islam followed by the marriages. Polygamy multiple wives in islam by khalid yasin duration. The utah lds say it supports polygamy and the rlds say it doesnt. In fact, islam is the only religion that limited this ancient and widespread practice.
From polygamy to incest, confronting the old testaments strange. The bible is an incredibly candid book when compared to the. Regardless of it not being acceptable for the husband of muhammads daughter, islam allows a man to marry up to four wives at any one time. Polygamy in islam in comparison with other religions and modern society.
Islam allows polygamy and permits men, under specific circumstances, to have at most four wives at any given time. He did, however, publicly denounce the practice in others both in pub. From verses 2528 and 34, it is clear that the lord had commanded lehis family to have but one wife. Islamic concept of polygamy, its benefits and impact on society. Polygamy or more correctly polygyny, the marriage of more than one woman to the same man was a part of the teachings of the church of jesus christ of latterday saints for a halfcentury. The second chapter of the book of jacob in the book of mormon contains the only explicit teaching about polygamy in the nephite record. Bukhari may allah be pleased with him narrated, according to an authentic chain of narrators, that when ghilan of the thaqif tribe a companion of the prophet embraced islam he had ten wives.
Jacob s cousins, and he also had bilhah and zilpah both were slavegirls gifted to jacob by his wives. Islam only made polygamy more humane, instituting equal rights for all wives. Jamal badawi was born in egypt where he completed his undergraduate education. Besides, a woman may stipulate that her husband must not marry any other woman as a second wife in her prenuptial contract. The concept of polygamy and the prophets marriages. The author robin johnson describes what such a marriage was like for an american female muslim who lives in the us. This website is for people of various faiths who seek to understand islam and muslims. For many christians, it is a license to promiscuity, and feminists consider it a violation of womens rights and demeaning to women. Polygamy was customary before islam and was not abrogated with the coming of islam. Heres something the other lds respondents have sidestepped joseph smith never publicly admitted to practicing polygamy either in writing or from the pulpit, in his lifetime. An introduction to polygamy in islam the religion of islam. The silent tears of polygamy is a novel based on a true story of an american muslim woman named ana.
Everyday low prices and free delivery on eligible orders. They may have as many as four wives at the same time. But there is one thing many seem to know and that is a muslim man can have four wives. Marriage to more than one wife at the same time polygamy is a practice as old as the history of man, and is allowed in islamic law. For many christians, polygamy is a permitted debauchery, for feminists violation of womens rights and belittling her dignity. The fact that islam encourages polygamy, though conditi onally, cannot be denied. Previous teachings permitted unlimited and unrestricted polygamy. Also, marriage and polygamy in islam is a matter of mutual consent. Islam and polygamy an introduction to the rights and. Polygamy plurality of wives is one of the controversial questions in the family system of islam. One of the greatest contrasts between islam and the. Polygamy is the muslim practice most frequently and severely maligned by westerners and modernist muslims.
Islam limits the number of wives allowed to four, and also discourages the practice. This book can be read with profit by all unprejudiced readers who wish to know its justification and rationale. There are worse things in the world than polygamy which has been practiced by many cultures outside of islam, but it is shocking to see a religion place such high value on a mans base sexual desire as to permit him to bring other women into the marriage bed just to satisfy lust. The practice of polygamy is a mathematical contradiction of the principle that men and women are to be treated equally. History of polygamy in africa polygamy in south africa posted. The following are a few points worth of consideration in an effort to clarify the wisdom of polygamy and when it can be used.
Because of their nonideal polygamous family structure, jacobs family. Did jacob practice polygamy in the old testament answers. The bible says that lamech, the grandson of adam, took unto him two wives. Polygamy was practiced by leaders of the church of jesus christ of latterday saints lds. This is one of just a couple books in english on the both widespread and controversial culture of polygamy in islam. The book of numbers, for example, records god commanding israelite. Islam has not only permitted this but also has given detail rules and regulation for it. Polygamy was well known amongst pagan arab tribes prior to the advent of islam but there was no limitation for the number of wives, like in the cases of some of the prophets mentioned above.
I hope that this discourse has helped you in understanding the islamic view on polygamy as well as the reasons for the prophets marriages. The silent tears of polygamy is a book about polygamy in islam the reality of the lifestyle. Popular polygamy books showing 150 of 476 escape hardcover by. Islam has allowed a man to marry more than one wife. Limited polygyny is a provision approved by islam for exceptional circumstances only. Nov 21, 2008 chapter 2 of the book of jacob in the book of mormon addresses polygamy.
He knew that polygamy hurt women, yet through his example he permitted it for billions of other muslim men. In the context of wartorn society in seventhcentury arabia, one which left many women widowed and children orphaned, the discussion of polygamy was revealed as part of a directive to treat female orphans justly. As the subtitle suggests it aims at describing the historical background, arguing for instance that early christians were polygamous, and. Polygamy and islam polygamy and islam 5 one point greatly in need of clarification is the fact that in the matter of marrying more than one woman, the initiative does not lie solely with any individual man. Jacob practiced polygamy in the bible and also had concubines but all was not well with him. For i, the lord god, delight in the chastity of women. These two authors explain well the many facets of the theory of islamic polygyny and how muslim spouses should respect it. And created attraction for men in women and vice versa. Polygamy is accepted and practiced by many in islam, and there are a handful of christians who practice polygamy as well. Jacob could foresee that his son would grow up to be the next prophet in the line of abraham and it would be joseph who would keep the message of islam alive in the coming years. The same book of mormon and the same article that commanded the nephites that they should not marry more than one wife, made an exception. The prophet solomon and his wives between islam and the people of the book 26th may 2016 abu khadeejah abdulwahid christianity and judaism, family, marriage and divorce, society, womens issues 0. Polygamy called plural marriage by mormons in the 19th century or the principle by modern fundamentalist practitioners of polygamy was practiced by leaders of the church of jesus christ of latterday saints lds church for more than half of the 19th century, and practiced publicly from 1852 to 1890 by between 20 and 30 percent of latterday saint families. Jacob specified that plural marriage may be practiced when god commanded it, but insisted that monogamy was otherwise the norm.
The culture of the west regards polygamy as something backward, unacceptable in our day. First of all you have to know the fact that polygamy in islam is not a right for men. The practice began during the lifetime of joseph smith but became publicly and. Reasons why islam permits polygamy the religion of islam. Polygamy in islam, and women it is not permitted to marry. Bilal philps was born in jamacia, but grew up in canada, where he accepted islam in 1972. Islam and polygamy an introduction to the rights and duties. Polygamy is the muslim practice most frequently and severely malig. The book of jacob condemned polygamy as adultery, but left open the proviso that for if i will, saith the lord of hosts, raise up. Polygamy in islam the rationale and laws behind pdf. The quran is the only holy book that actually says marry only one. Book about polygamy in islamthe reality based on a true story. For many christians, polygamy is a permitted debauchery, for feminists violation of. Nov 19, 2015 so, did jacob have four legally wedded wives.
It existed long before islam came into the scene of world events. Islam has permitted polygamy as a solution to social ills, and has allowed a certain degree of latitude to human nature but only within the strictly defined framework of law. And tanzanian president john magufuli actively encourages polygamy, citing the 10 million more women than men in his country. To deny the validity and legality of polygamy is tantamount to denying the comprehensiveness of the islamic marriage system and the wisdom of the divine decree.
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